Mad egun tea for you, for me.

"The reason you went through all that was so you could help and heal others through their own pain...
Try to heal yourself everyday, as best as you can, and we will do the rest."

A tea party often represents some stimulating idea, hope, person, or contact experienced.  It represents the change that can be made on behavior by inner energies.  

Celebrations of any represent light-heartedness, the desirous feeling of love/social acclaim/family togetherness.  

Ancestral indications represent the intricate web of cultural and family influences, physically and psychologically, that our bodies and personalities arose from.  

(You're getting closer).